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Welcome
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Welcome to issue 7 of
emommieNews. It's been a busy summer at emommies.net. I
hope all of you are enjoying your summer. I know how it can
seem like the summer is the busiest time of the year. Between
vacations, camp, family reunions and swim lessons, there isn't
enough time left to catch your breath. Just remember to enjoy
every minute because school will be starting before you know it and
then it's a whole new kind of chaos.
While everyone has been out enjoying the beautiful weather, I
have been slaving away at my computer making emommies.net even
better. (Actually, I'm not really slaving away. I've
been having a great summer at the pool with my 3 girls) Try to
make time to check out all the new things going on at emommies.net.
I want to take a second of your time to welcome our newest
MommiesClubs. The MommiesClub of Atlanta and The MommiesClub
of Orange County. Our first MC
Chapters in Georgia and California! The Atlanta leader is Tamara and she's created a
Yahoo!Group for the chapter at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mommiesclubatl.
The Orange County Leader is Melanie and you can find them at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MommiesClubofOC.
If you live in these areas and are interested in joining, check
them out! They'd love to have you and you're sure to have tons
of fun!
If you would
like more information on how you can contribute to emommieNews, e-mail me
at Noelle@emommies.net
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| Feature
Article - A Teen Mom's Story |
My Story
By Angele McGill
I was asked to
write a story about my experience as a young teen mom But before
I start I'd like to mention one thing first. Even though I have
been through some rough times (with my daughter's bio-father) I
would never take back the fact that I had her at such a young
age. I love my baby girl with all my heart and wouldn't change
what has happened to me (good or bad) for anything. Without all
the good and bad, I probably wouldn't have her now.
When I found out I was pregnant with my
daughter I had just turned 17 years old a month and a half
prior. Many would say I was too young to be having a baby. When
I first heard the results I had many different feelings running
through my mind and body but I knew right then that I had to
change the direction of my life. What I mean, is at that time I
didn't care much for school, I wasn't worried about much of
anything before that day. All I wanted to do was have fun and
enjoy myself but within seconds my whole world flipped around
and I knew I had to change right away. I made school my number
one priority after taking care of myself and my baby.
My family was pretty shocked when I told them,
but they soon became very supportive of me and my decision
to have this baby. They started by helping me get baby
furniture, clothes and making sure I had transportation to my
doctor appointments. My mom went as far as coming to my Lamaze
classes with me. I must say that the best thing was when I went
into labor and my mom was by my side for the whole thing. She
rubbed my back, got me whatever I wanted, made all the phone
calls and best of all she was right beside me when I delivered
my beautiful baby girl. I must say that was my greatest moment
of all time.
During my pregnancy I still attended school
on a full time basis. My high school was different from many
others. The school actually had a program for teen moms or soon
to be teen moms. They had a daycare in the school, so we could
go visit our child whenever we wanted to. Plus they provided
transportation, and meals while at school. They even had a
female counselor come in twice a week so the teen moms could
have one on one conversations with her. We could talk
about the stress in our lives or anything at all. I think if it
wasn't for the program I would have never graduated high school
at all. Needless to say I did graduate high school in June of
1998, only one year behind all my other friends. I think my
graduating high school was the second best thing to ever happen
to me. I had some people tell me that I couldn't or wouldn't
finish school at all. I suppose that the reason they
believed this was because they figured since I had a baby my
life was over.
Although I had my family's support before
and after I had my daughter I knew I couldn't let myself
be irresponsible about it and expect them to raise my baby. It
was my responsibility and I was going to do it, not
anyone else. I went through some hard times along the way but
I kept in mind "Someone somewhere else is probably worse
off than I am right now." That little phrase
helped me get through some rough times. I often wondered if I
was doing the right thing by her,
if I was doing a good job at raising her. I would
wonder if she would become a teen mom and if there was
anything I could do to help prevent this. I came to the
conclusion that all I have to do is help her through her
rough times, help her understand life as it comes at us,
listen to her, etc. Something my parents didn't do.
My baby girl is now, 4years old and will be
starting her first year of school. I have come a
long way in 4 years. I have found myself a wonderful man, whom
I am now married too and I have another child. Now
instead of being a teen mom, I am now considered just a young
mom with two children. I love both my children and my
husband with all my heart, they are my world. I wouldn't
change anything in my life at all, even the hard times.
If you have an article to contribute to
emommieNews, email me at Noelle@emommies.net.
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| Attention:
Recalls (May, June and July) |
| Attention
everyone! This is a partial list of recalls and
other press releases provided by the Consumer Product Safety
Commission. Please check out their website for more
recalls. I only included child/family related ones here.
You can find more at http://www.cpsc.gov.
Toys
Infant/Child Product Recalls
Household Products
Clothing
Sports
Appliances
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| What's
New @ emommies.net? |
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Yes, you've guessed it. We've evolved some more! The
growth that we've seen at emommies.net is exciting. I'll get
right down to it so you all can check it out!
- We've done away with the Point System. It's purpose was
to get moms to contribute to emommies.net. It wasn't
working. So, it's outta here.
- emommies.net Business Services is a new feature offered by
emommies.net. I was shocked to learn that some online
companies charge $195 for 3 months of advertising or upwards of
$500 for web page development! How in the world are moms
who own their own small business supposed to afford these
prices? And another thing, why are so many people
advertising the big companies? I suppose it has something
to do with the fact that the big companies can afford to do
it. Well, check out emommies.net Business Services to get
info on affordable alternatives to big money advertising.
We would much rather have your ad on our site than the big
business. We also offer graphic and web design for a price
that the small business owner can afford.
- emommies.net Mailing List has changed. I used to send
out the newsletter via Yahoo!Groups but I'd end up spending tons
of wasted time trying to upload the newsletter and it would
never look right anyway, so I've decided to use a new mailing
list. All Yahoo!Groups members and registered emommies
received an email notifying them of the changes and how to go
about adding themselves to the new mailing list so that they
don't miss out on this awesome newsletter. If you aren't
on the mailing list and would like to be, then go to http://www.emommies.net
and fill in the mini form to add yourself to the list.
Then just follow the directions in the opt in email to finalize
the subscription.
- Our message boards are even NEWER! Coolboards no longer
hosts free forums so we are now using Aimoo! I really like
this one because there are no pop ups! Right now though,
they are a little slow. Partly because of being new and
partly because it's summer. Stop in and introduce
yourself. We've also added a section for past and present
teen moms. So check it out! emommies.net
Message Boards
- Live Customer Assistance! That's right, now you can chat
live with me if you find you need assistance. Look for the
Human Click logo on our main page as well as our MommiesClub
page.
- Join the emommies.net webring! This is a great way to
increase traffic to your site. You can join if you have a
site that was created by a mommie, or caters to mommies. For
more information, visit emommies Webrings.
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| Letters
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[From A Human Click Chat Session at emommies.net]
Do you have any advice (or know where I can find
some) on how to talk about sex with a 4th grade girl? My
friend's daughter is in 4th grade and my friend wants to be
prepared.
Although this didn't officially come in as a
letter to the editor, it's in the same spirit. A request for
advice from a loving mother.
I however am not in the least qualified to
answer it (my oldest isn't even 6 yet), so I am sending out a
request to all you moms who have been there done that. Help us
moms who have yet to experience the "talk". You can
e-mail me directly with your comments or visit our "Hot
Topic" section and submit your response there.
Thanks,
Noelle
Do you have a question or comment for the
emommies.net editor? If so, I'd love to hear from you.
Send your letters to
Noelle@emommies.net.
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| In This Issue
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- Welcome
- Feature Article - A Teen Mom's Story
- Attention: Recalls
- What's New?
- Letters To The Editor
- Romance Tip
- May Contest
- Hot Topic
- Humor
- Craft Corner
- Recipe
- MommiesClub ~ Playgroups
- emommieAward Winner
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| Hot
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Check out our Hot Topic!
~The Sex Question~
We all know the day is going to come when we have to answer the sex
question. Maybe for some of you it's already been here.
For many of us, we can only anticipate the scenario. Will it
be "Mom, Where do babies come from?" or more direct,
like "What is sex?" It's common sense that all kids
will ask at one time or another and that our answers need to be age
appropriate, but where do we go from there? Share with us your
comments and experiences. I know that there are moms out there
who would love to hear your advice.
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| Humor |
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These are some definitions I've come across recently. Most
are from Sanity Central
which is an awesome website. They will have you ROTFL in no
time. Take a break from parenting and check them out!
FAMILY PLANNING: The art of spacing your
children the proper distance apart to keep you on the edge of
financial disaster.
SANDBOX: "Storage place" for kitchen
serving utensils.
STERILIZE: What you do to your first
baby's pacifier by boiling it and to your last baby's pacifier by
licking it off.
TWO-MINUTE WARNING: When the baby's
face turns red and she begins to make those familiar grunting
noises.
WEAKER SEX: The kind you have after the
kids have worn you out.
Do you have a bit of humor that you would like
to share with other emommies? If so, visit emommiesSay
and click on "Humor" for more information.
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| Craft
Corner |
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Fingerprint Dominoes
You'll need:
package of plain white 3 X 5 index cards
ink pads
ruler
fine-line marker
Using the ruler, draw a line through the center of 28 cards.
Then, using the inkpad, have your kids make fingerprints on the
"dominoes" in the proper domino patterns. See example
below.
And viola. Not only do you have a fun craft,
but now you have a game too!
Do you have a craft idea that you would like to
share with other emommies? If so, contact Noelle.
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Krispy
Cheese Balls ~ Great to do with kids!
You'll
need:
2 tbsp grated cheese
2 tbsp butter
¼ cup flour
¼ cup Rice Krispies
Mix all ingredients well and form into little
balls. Bake at 375°F for 10 minutes.
Do you have a recipe that you would
like to share with other emommies? If so visit our Recipes
section for more details.
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| MommiesClub |
Planning Events
By: Michele L Gue, COMPlaygroup
(Cleveland, Ohio MommiesClub)
When planning events for our playgroup, we have tons of things to
consider. These things include availability of other members,
location of the
event, age appropriateness and advanced notice. Without them you
will have a
hard time getting a "good show" at your events. What’s
the fun if you are the
only one there for your group?
When finding out who is available when, it’s best to think about
the
majority of your group. If you have 30 members and 19 of them can
make events
best in the evening that seems like the best time to schedule.
Remember, you
cannot please everyone at once. Its best to remember you are not
superwoman.
You should think about who has access to a car if the family shares
a car.
Sometimes you can connect a carpool to an event as well. Its best to
make a
question list to find out what works best for everyone.
The location is very important as well. Think within a 15-20 minute
drive
and centering the event on majority of your members. This does not
have to be
every event. Just make sure that at least a few of them can be close
enough
that they can all get there around the same time. Again, ask your
members if
location is important to them. They may not mind driving a half hour
to a
coliseum, zoo, or theme park. Depending on the event some people
will drive
further for more of a guarantee that their child will be happy at
the event.
When checking for age appropriateness of an event, ask the event
coordinator at the event what ages enjoy that event mostly. Ask
parents what
kind of things their children enjoy. If it’s an in-home event such
as a
regular "play date" then if your finger-painting it can be
adjusted to fit
the needs of all ages. The age factor would need to be considered
for a tour
of a candy factory, going to a ball game, etc.
Make sure that you give enough notice for all your members needs.
Usually
if you have the day planned out a month in advance that works. Then
you can
tell them later, like a 2 weeks notice what the events details are.
I try to
have a set day for the events such as our birthdays. The last
Saturday of
every month can be a set day. Then you can say, well we will be at
here this
time. It gives you an added stretch of time to plan last minute. Try
to make
sure that 2 weeks is the furthest away. Rain days and cancellation
days can
be planned at the same time so that your members can know what
happens if it
is canceled and will keep that day in mind.
As long as you plan with your group in mind, your events will be a
success. For ideas you can look in your local paper, on the web, ask
other
mom's, call tour groups, etc. If you still can't come up with
something, there is
a zoo in almost every big city, theme parks, movie days, family
picnics, even
a jr. Olympics with potato sack races etc. Just think fun and ask
for
opinions. You can never go wrong.
emommies.net is proud to offer help to moms who
are interested in starting or joining playgroups. You can
find more information about this in our MommiesClub*
section.
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emommieAward
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It's been a long while, but we finally have a new emommieAward
recipient. The winner of the July emommieAward is

Whether you're an experienced scrapbooker or just a beginner,
this site has tons of stuff for you!
Do you have a nomination for the
emommieAward? If so, check out our Award
section for details on how to submit your nomination.
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| Romance
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Can you answer these three questions about your significant
other? 1 - What is their favorite all time food? 2- What
is their favorite all time movie? 3 - What is their favorite
all time board game? Sometimes, as we grow to know someone, we
overlook the small stuff. Try to spend time this month,
learning the answers to the little questions. Then, use that
information to brighten a bad day or celebrate a happy moment.
Your conversations don't always have to be about the state of the
union or the political unrest in the Middle East. Sometimes
it's uplifting to celebrate the simple things in life.
Do you have a romantic tip that you would like to
share with other emommies? If so, contact Noelle.
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| Summer
Contest |
I got ZERO submissions for the May contest, so now it is being
extended until the end of the summer. Send me your pictures! This
is a great opportunity for us to get to know each other.
The contest is...."What I want to be when I grow up"
Check out our contest section for
details. The deadline for pictures to be submitted is August
31st. So get clicking! We will post the photos and all
will be able to judge. The judging will take place from
September 1st to September 7th.. Winner to be announced
September 14th.. Good
luck!
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